Median Wedding Spend by State (2025)

Average costs are often skewed by a small number of ultra-luxury weddings costing six figures or more. The median spend identifies the exact middle point of the market, where 50% of couples spend more and 50% spend less, providing a more attainable target for most planners.

Hawaii maintains the highest median spend at $21,117, followed closely by Massachusetts ($20,584) and the District of Columbia ($20,381). This reflects higher baseline costs for venues and local services in these regions.

While averages may suggest $30,000+, these 2025 figures show that for many states, the median experience falls between $15,000 and $20,000. This indicates that many couples are successfully finding value through intimate guest counts and prioritizing key vendor categories.